Friday, September 15, 2017

Women Today


Egyptian Mummy Portrait, c. 160 - 170 C.E.

What's it mean to be a "modern" woman? "Modern" means to come from something, and so a modern woman is a woman steeped in physical, cultural, and psychological ancestors—and that is all women. To be a modern woman is to share a common history with all the women that have preceded her. It is to share and be made by the hopes, fears, abuse, and victories of previous cultures’ relationships with women. I like this woman’s death mask because, even though she and I are separated by 1800 years, she emotes confidence and calm like the women in my life that I admire.


"Dear Daughter," Davis
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VRHKHF7ITy8

This song is about a daughter who wants to change and grow but feels trapped by the same struggles her mother faced. Being modern is to come from a historical context, but it also to be different from that past. Modern women come from the same struggles and past as their female ancestors, but they have the ability to make a new future for women. In my own family, for the last four or so generations the women have faced similar problems in their marriages, families, and mental health. But each generation it gets a little better and it comes from pulling strength from the previous generation and moving forward.




Women's March on D.C.
https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2017/01/21/world/womens-march-pictures.html

Over the last century women have gained incredible access to their rights. Being a modern woman makes one a benefactor of these gains. With benefaction comes the responsibility to ensure that current rights stay rights and that new rights are given so that, one day, all women will enjoy full access to life. Some ways to help future women are through political demonstrations and volunteering with at-risk populations.
Girl in an Afghanistan school
https://borgenproject.org/why-female-education-fights-poverty/
Today, with 82.7% of the world's women literate, it is fair to say that a hallmark of the modern woman is education. Women's education is one of the surest ways to increase individual women's and communities' health. Educated women tend to have fewer children, so the children they do have have more resources and grow up healthier and more successful. Educated women also make more money and make better healthcare choices for themselves and their families. Female education is great! Despite its greatness, fewer women than men are literate or graduate from school. Equal educational access for is a major human rights concern.




"I Survived Sex Trafficking," Buzzfeed

Although globally women have more equality than ever before, the same sexist evils that have imprisoned women for thousands of years are still present all over the world. What makes us different today is that we have the legal, technological, and structural force to fight back and save abused women. Media like this video increase awareness about abuse and slavery; jobs like Tika’s are relatively new and make helping survivors more possible.




Women farming

To be a woman is to work and create opportunities. Whether that is as a mother, teacher, farmer, politician, janitor, business owner, or seamstress, women work. Women in different parts of the world have different work opportunities available to them, but regardless of the work they promote change and create a foundation for others.







My favorite picture of my mom, about 2004. 

Motherhood affects all women. Regardless of whether a woman is, or physically can be, a mother, the potential to be a mother shapes all women’s lives in some way. To not be a mother—to not fulfill the role that society has conflated with women for thousands of years—is a conscious choice, and society will treat her differently for making that choice. The inability to have children often brings severe emotional challenges. Once a woman becomes a mother, she is always a mother; even if her all her children die, she will never not be a mother. For many women simply having sex must involve choices about motherhood (to take birth control, to not take birth control, what type of birth control?). Motherhood is a part of all women’s lives.




Eloise, Kay Thompson

Women have incredible inner resources of strength. Often times, like clever, crazy Eloise, those resources do not fit societal norms, but they allow women to go forth and change the world.



quote from The Left Hand of Darkness by Ursula K. Le Guin

People are a mix. No man is the perfect stereotype of male and no woman is the perfect stereotype of female. Every person has some “maleness” in them and some “femaleness” in them. At our cores, before we are men or women, we are human. The breaking down of traditional gender roles allows people to be authentic and be humans first.



comic by Kate Beaton, Canadian cartoonist and feminist supreme
https://eloriane.wordpress.com/2008/11/04/kate-beaton-and-clever-clever-comics/

Being a woman is sometimes having to remind people that her femaleness doesn’t make her incompetent; nor does she lack the ability to make things that are relevant to both men and women.



"Touch Me Not," Minerva Teichert; the resurrected Christ appearing to Mary

As an LDS woman, a major part of being a modern woman is that I have the ability to participate fully participate in Jesus Christ's gospel. At no other time in history, other than for Eve and her near descendants, has this been true. Women, and men, can take part in all the covenants and ordinances needed to be exalted. With the restoration of Christ’s gospel, God has also revealed that women are men’s equals and must be treated as such.




Me with my friends the Barnetts

Being a woman, being human, is to have relationships with other people. Our relationships with society, friends, family, and others allow us to fill our lives with meaning. Relationships are the mirror in which we view and understand ourselves. They are how we find joy, and being a woman certainly involves joy.

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